Differences Between Men and Women in the Way of Caring?
Men and women have different ways of expressing their love and care, and mostly they misunderstand each other’s way of caring. We’ll first discuss how men and women show care in a relationship and then discuss the reason of this difference.
Women have nurturing and tending nature. They show their love and care by worrying about little things and try to do everything they can for their spouses, they try to pamper their partners. They like to tell their husbands what’s good for them and what’s not. They take extra care of their men, which in turn irritates men and they react unexpectedly opposite.
Women, in their own perception, try to show their love by taking extra care of their men, but men find it suffocating and they think they’re being controlled. Remember ladies, no man likes to be controlled and they love their freedom.
As husbands respond negatively to this attention and care, the wives think their love and care is valueless and they can not figure out what’s wrong in their way of loving. Men love their wives’ taking care of them but when you try to take extra care of them, in every matter, they feel annoyed. The reason of explaining this is to aware both men and women of the way women show care and the reason why men get irritated by this care.
Now let’s talk about men’s caring style. Women mostly complain that their husbands don’t listen to them and they keep giving women advice instead. Women find this strange because all they need from their men is to empathize with them.
When your wife complains you about her hectic day or bad health, she is just wanting to share her feeling with you and thus relax. Women feel relaxed after sharing their thoughts and feelings, and they expect men to listen to them with full attention and to empathize with them through little loving and caring gestures.
Now, when a man gives his wife this unwanted advice, she finds it irritating. So men, when your partners share their experiences and feelings with you, be a good listener and show some concern, the rest will be figured out by your partners themselves.
Men actually think that whenever someone is complaining about something, it means that person needs help or advice. But this is the case with men and not the women. Therefore, from now on you should have the awareness of your woman’s expectations from you, and the best way of showing your love and care is to listen to her attentively.
This is how men and women express their love and care in their relationship. The reason why their style of caring is different, is because their thinking and mindset are different. In a relationship, remember one thing, NEVER EXPECT FROM YOUR PARTNER TO BEHAVE IN THE WAY YOU DO.
Men and women are supposed to be different, they have different ways of experiencing things, different ways of thinking and feeling, and different ways of expressing. Men are not emotional, they are strong, ambitious, goal oriented, and practical whereas, women are fragile, emotional, and expressive.