Differences between Men and Women in the Way of Getting Motivated?
As we are discussing the gender differences in the ways of thinking and acting, this article is going to talk about the difference in the way men and women get motivated or about the ways to be used when trying to motivate them.
Men and women have different styles of showing their love and care and if you have awareness of the way your partner shows his/her love and care to you, you’ll be able to get the most out of that person because you won’t let the love and care of your spouse die. Let’s now discuss how men and women love and get motivation to give more.
Women and men behave differently when they’re in love. Women try to give a lot to their loved one when they have the feeling and satisfaction that they are receiving regard and respect for this in return.
When a woman will be cherished and given respect for all her efforts in the relationship, she’ll get motivated to do more and more. This is because she’ll know that her efforts and caring are not being neglected or being taken for granted, she’ll know that her partner acknowledges her efforts and is giving her respect and honor in return.
She’ll know that her partner is giving response to her love and care by returning love and care to her, by taking care of her needs, by standing by her side through every thick and thin etc. When a man honors his wife, takes care of her needs, does good things for her, and supports her in hard times then she feels much much satisfied in her relationship and is ready to love her husband as fully and as much as she can.
Therefore, for getting your wife motivated to keep loving you and taking care of you, you need to acknowledge her love and care by honoring her and taking care of her in every walk of life.
That’s how women show love, now let’s see how men show love. Men, as we mentioned earlier, are strong and competent and they want to show their power and efforts when they love someone. Men want to do everything for their partners, they want to take care of their partners in the same way they care about themselves and feel happy and satisfied.
When a man is in love, he wants to do everything he can for making his love’s life easy and enjoyable. Most women who complain that their husbands have become carefree and they don’t try anything to ease our lives, they don’t realize that they themselves are responsible for that.
When a man is doing everything for you, he wants you to keep reminding him that you are dependent on him and that you need him to support you in every way (financially, physically, emotionally, morally). This realization makes a man motivated, and he keeps doing for you more and more, he never tires from his efforts for you.
It has been observed in most working couples that when women start earning, they become independent and this isn’t much appreciated by their husbands, they become passive and reluctant, and stop putting their efforts in the relationship, this is what needs to be handled, this is what women themselves need to take care of.
A solution to this problem can be this; you (wives) earn but show to your husbands that you still need them to meet your needs, you need them to take care of you etc. You can add your earning to theirs as an extra help and that way your men will be happy with you and become more supportive for you.